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Sunday, August 15, 2010

What Was The Harshest Punishment You Have Given Your Child?




What was the harshest punishment you have given your child, one you regretted later on?

10 comments:

Amrita said...

This is very hard to discuss. Too painful and I will desist Mel. Just too painful

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Amrita,
Yes, I respect your feelings on this my friend. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you always.

Dhemz said...

yung pinaka harsh siguro kuyaMel is spanking...matigas kasi ulo ni Akesha minsan....hehehhe!

charmie said...

Wala p po akong maishare dito! pero noong bata pa ako naalala ko yong tatay ko na kung kami magkamali, tawagin niya kami at ipaluhod sa harap ng altar. Mag ask ng sorry na di na uulitin uli:) Ganon ako dinidisiplana ng tatay ko! God Bless,Kuya:)

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Dhemz,
Sometimes it cannot be helped especially if that is the only recourse of action left. As the Bible says, "spare the rod, spoil the child." Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you all always.

chubskulit said...

Nung bago ko pa lang ipanganak si EJ Kuya, di ko masyadong nakokontrol temper, dala siguro ng stressed of taking care of two small kids ng alang katulong so nakukurot or napapalo ko noon si Rye which made me very guilty. One time kasi nanglata yung kurot ko and I did not sleep for one night then kakaisip ko kung bakit ko nagawa yun. But tama ka, dapat kasi pinapalo din ang bata para alam nila ang limitasyon, basta sa tama nga alang.. Ngayon pinipilit kong wag ng masaktan mga anak ko.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Charmie,
I understand you. The punishment you got from your father was very soft and is very positive. To require you to kneel before the altar and ask forgiveness from God is a very positive course of action and cannot be considered punishment in the strictest sense of the word. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you always.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Rose,
Spanking should be the last resort when all other things fail, and we must be aware that we discipline our children for the right reasons and that is to reform them and never to punish them or to become an outlet of our pent up emotions. Kawawa namn sila kapag sila ang napagbuntungan natin nang ating frustrations or pent up emotions against others. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you all always.

chubskulit said...

Hello Kuya, just a quick dalaw again before I close up.. Nabasa ko kasi comment mo hehehe. About the tuition, I guess it's free nga sa p[ublic school, private kasi ang mga catholic schools dito eh. Mahal but we decided thea our kids attend to private school mas close kasi ang supervision ng private dito kasi konti lang students..

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Rose,
Okay lang yun. Siyempre gusto ninyong ibigay ang the best para sa anak ninyo. Next year kasi ay balak kunin nang misis ko ang dalawang bunso namin para maka avail daw nang free education. Okay naman siguro ang public school sa US hindi katulad dito. Grabe lang talaga yung ibinayad mong tuition fee, nakakalula. Thanks for your visit again and God bless you all always.