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Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Could You Love A Love Child Of Your Spouse?



Suppose you are childless with your spouse for a long period of time, then you found out that your spouse has a love child out of wedlock. Your spouse was suggesting to you that you adopt the love child since you have no children of your own. Would you adopt the love child of your spouse? Would you love the child as your very own even if the child will always remind you of a previous indiscretion by your spouse? Please explain your answer.

Tags: Child, Marriage, Relationship, Faithfulness, Adoption, Infidelity, Spouse, Indiscretion, Harmony, Love, Trust

Posted by: Mel Avila Alarilla

12 comments:

Pia said...

honestly, this is one of my fears. i don't know how to react.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi sis Pia,
Don't think about it. Just trust God. As they say, your worst fears are liable to come true. God is good all the time. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you always.

Pia said...

thanks for that word of wisdom. i needed that. God bless you, bro.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi sis Pia,
All for the glory of God. TO GOD BE THE GLORY. God bless you always.

chubskulit said...

I think I would.. If you really love your spouse, you will accept his past.... it will hurt at first but then again you must broaden your understanding and open your heart in order to live happily with your love one...

Maraming salamat po for visiting my blog....

joops said...

Past experiences doesn't matter as long as you love your partner. I wouldn't mind at all..

I'm lucky that my wife accepted me for what I am and for what I had done in the past....

misty said...

love knows no bounderies.... I would, especially if we don't have kids...

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Chubskulit,
You have a very understanding and forgiving heart. As we say, who's perfect and who did not sin? All's forgiven and forgotten from the heart that truly loves. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you always.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Joops,
You seem to have some skeletons in your closet, he,he,he, *lol* Joke only friend. Yes, true love will always forgive her loved one. Who's perfect anyway? Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you too.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Misty,
Ohum, It's always easy when you are just saying it, but when it happens it still hurts. I guess people are more forgiving when they truly love the person involved. Ah, love conquers all. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you always.

liza said...

siguro if i was younger, baka hindi. it will be very hard kasi when i was younger i was very jealous hehe. pero kung ngayon, i think pwede na rin. ;)

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Liza,
You are very funny indeed. That means age can temper our decisions. Thanks for your visit and cute comments. God bless you always.